When Your Dreams Clash With Your Neurodivergence
I have been watching a series of documents where David Suchet, who is famous for…
What Happens When Mental Health Treatment Isn’t Built for Neurodivergent Brains?
My mental health has taken a sharp dip downwards in the last month or so….
I Loved Her Deeply—So Why Don’t I Feel the Pain?
After the passing of my beloved rattie Rosie, I have been surprised to feel… Nothing. …
How to Mourn for Neurodivergent Minds
Yesterday, my rattie Rosie, The Brave Girl, passed after an unsuccessful fight for her life….
The Most Creative Ways to Overcome ADHD Paralysis
I ran across a Facebook post by Cherry ADHD asking about the most unhinged tips…
How I Use Google Calendar to Combat Time Blindness
Time blindness makes life really difficult. When you’re lost in time, you forget appointments, run…
AuDHD Morning Routine: A Simple Habit-Stacking Plan That Actually Sticks
When you are both autistic and ADHD, building a morning routine may be hard, but…
Synaptic Pruning and Autism: When the Brain Doesn’t Declutter
Ever wondered how your brain decides what to keep and what to toss out? Deep…
Neurodivergent Friendship: How to Tell Who’s a Real Friend And Who’s an Acquaintance
Neurodivergent friendship can feel beautifully simple and wildly complicated at the same time. On good…
How to Use Alarms for Time Blindness (And Why One Is Never Enough)
If you have an AuDHD brain and one alarm has never been enough to get you out of the door, you’re not failing at something simple. Using alarms for time blindness isn’t about discipline; it’s about supporting transitions your brain can’t track on its own. The real issue is a mismatch between how time is usually explained and how your brain actually experiences it. For a long time, I thought that needing more than one alarm meant I was disorganized, unmotivated, or just bad at mornings. In reality, the problem was never willpower. It was transitions, and being expected to make them instantly, without support.